It's the hot red

Hello everybody

Today I am wearing this red long sleeve dip hem dress. I combined it with strap heels. I normally call them “Gladiator Strap” heels. I am a huge fan of this extraordinary dress. On the one side because of the cutting of this piece and on the other side because of the colour. Red is such an interesting colour. It’s the colour of our blood. It has an empowered attraction towards our eyes. That's the reason why traffic lights are red I guess and stop signs as well. Did you recognize that many important things have red on it? The red carpet, in a Tamil Hindu wedding the bride wears a red saree and our pottu (Bindi) is traditionally also in red. It’s fire and love at the same time. The colour is also strongly linked to desire and attraction. Men are more attracted to women who wear red. It could be that the colour red has a specific meaning in the subconscious mind of men. When the mankind was in the Stone Age men were hunters. It was a man’s responsibility to bring food to the families, so the children and their wives could survive. They killed a lot of animals and had red blood on their hands many times. Maybe the colour of blood was connected with the emotions danger and risk and till this day it triggers unconsciously similar senses. If you see a woman who wears a red dress or even a red lipstick it automatically attracts you because your instinct gets activated. “You need to hunt her.” I am not a scientist who wrote off a theory. Just my thoughts guys…

Have a great weekend and thank you for the reading.

 

 

The dance that touches the soul of oneselves

The dance that touches the soul of oneselves

I’m learning this beautiful dance form called Bharathanatyam since I’ve been 3 years old. I could never understand or define what Bharathanatyam did to me. Many students of our danceclass told me, that dance helped them escaping from their problems. It was a positive deflection from the real world. They found inner peace and happiness in dance. But for me, dance has never been a diversion. I remember those days where I was so unhappy with my life situation and a dark cloud was around me for weeks and absorbed every positive type of energy impulse from my soul so that I was trapped in my own darkness. I tried to dance a lot in those times but I still couldn’t find a positive path. In the opposite - you could really see the pain in my heart and the tears in my eyes while I was dancing a varnam or worst - a bhavam piece. 

The end of the year 2017 was the period of perceptions. I finally realised what dance meant to me. It doesn’t heal my soul but rather It reflects the inner truth of my spirit. Only when this awareness came up I internally understand the quote 

„Dance is the hidden language of your soul and body.“

 

 

Photographer: Rahave Ruthiraswaran

My shooting partner

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I wish you all a Happy New Year. You get a new year, you get a new start, you get a new opportunity. Take risks, leave your comfort zones and learn to focus on positive energy!   

As you can see I had a shooting partner. The funny thing is few years earlier I was really afraid of dogs. I couldn’t walk next to them. I had no explanation for my fear. Fear is nothing more than obstacle that stands in the way of progress. In overcoming our fears, we can move forward, stronger and wiser within ourselves.

Three years ago I participated on a English language program in Dublin. In the application i wrote down that I preferred a host family without pets. Sadly, when I arrived in Dublin a Pitbull waited at the door entree. When I saw him I realised that I have to face my fear because otherwise I couldn’t enjoy my stay in Dublin. After three weeks I had a big buddie. He was so charming, gentle and loyal. Dogs give us pure love without a thought of receiving anything in return. 

Something the human beeing can learn from...

  

 

Photographer: Elina Peter 

overknee boots

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In the past few weeks it was to cold to wear a dress and overknee boots. Today the sun is shining and I decided to grab my boots and present this outfit. I bought them in Reno, but you can find them also in every other online shop. I wasn't sure if I should post it, but yeah, here I am. This outfit is a little bit tempting, but I'm really feeling it. I can literally touch my inner fire. It's because of the boots. They give you that confidence and I absolutely recommend them to you all.

Sometimes I ask myself as a woman: Is it allowed to show your inner fire without being criticized at the same time because it's mostly seductive? Yes? No? Why is it such a big deal in our culture, when women show her inner light? Why she has to hide her femininity instead of shining, spread love and being pure with oneself?

And you know what, I finished asking.

 I started to LIVE. Our lives are limited. Don't waste your time by focussing on other people's opinion. It's none of your business. 

In the end people just regret the things they didn't do. Not the things they did.

So if you want to feel your inner fire go for it! 

Touch it! Let it burn! It's allright to be a woman!

Photographer: Elina Peter